问题

那天回家的路上听了一遍蒋老师的CD，算是悟了这一点点的道理:
‘问题不会再是问题，当认变成了目标的时候’

谈何容易但却如此有深度的一句话。老师说当处理问题时不单凭情绪，原则，观念，喜好或错与对，只要很深远去想想后果然后决定于最恰当的方法，取自于之再马上行动去达成目标就是最有效了。

不要怕做错决定不敢去做决定，只有在错的决定才能找到下一个更对的。

可我在想。。。人有悲欢离合，有谁又可以EQ如此的高，可以anytime都那么冷静去处理突而起来的发生？有谁又可以铁面无私而大义灭亲？谁又真的可以将自己的感觉度身于外问题呢？！当没人认同你时，你又有能耐的一意孤行吗？只有上帝能办到吧？！

算了，maybe我还没到那种境界去领会。Like mum said：‘年轻人，在多点经历后吧。。’那我岂不是要set个目标，让自己再经跌倒多一点？

Man who gave us a dream...

C.W Lee lose out at the Olympic Badminton final match.. Call it a disappointment? Or shall I consider lucky? No doubt, C.W Lee is a great talent and he’s a big proud to us. But looking at the fundamental support from our government as compare to China, isn’t it surprise enough for our player to against them in the final? Sorry for being sarcastic…

I acted lukewarmly which watching the game with my housemates last night, but indeed I was thrilled and eager to expect his winning, a miracle that would make us proud again for something…

To Lee, although it was a pain to us, but for at least once you had brought us to almost a gold medal in Olympic, thank you…

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eXercIses~

I was so back into exercises recently, for a better health? Physically to look better? Whatever it is I’m just so glad my strength of mind works this time, been jogging for months and now basketball. Yosh, isn’t this life supposed to be besides working hard?!

I used to try keeping up exercise paying hundred plus every month to fitness centre but I was only determined to go once or twice monthly. Don’t u laugh at me coz I know quite a number of ppl practicing same too. Too much of work excuses too little of determination, maybe?

It was really thrilling especially when the whole body sweat thoroughly, it stings I know, juz feel good and love it! And it puts me into sleeps damn well, saying goodbye to my big tummy too.. soon?! LOL. But it does excessively takes up my time and energy at times, am trying to balance up and cut it down to alternate day instead before im taking complaints from anyone. LOL.

Follow your heart

Never know a few hours late night talk would totally reminded the happiness which I’ve forgotten so long. Thanks to June, the great buddy and the only 1 out of 10, appreciate her thoughtful speech so much, so much wisdom to find…

Our conversation peaked when she reminded how wonderful for one able to go for something that absolutely follows his heart, a simple way of life but most were not clever enough to realize that.

We’re so used to the logical, common way of thinking in society yet we’ve always neglected the very true voices in our heart. Have u ever wanted something so much but bound to ethical values you'd just ended up go with the flow and leave your true desire alongside? What if it comes back again and again, what if it was so strong and makes you really anxious about it? and you might hope for no regrets five years down the road?

So who is deciding you right or wrong, the moral values, the so called common senses or the voices within the deepest inside you? It needs plenty of guts, June said that. To live according what ppl normally accepted and likes it, you’re easily a good man… to them. But come to our own self, regardless should it be called selfish, don’t you think we should be all truthful to our heart? Albeit the fact it could sometime makes others disagree with you so much that one may hate you, or discrediting you till an extend you may have to give up some good lives at that time, would you still persist? Not so easy…

I’m glad I’ve learnt a good lesson, to have my guts I would need plenty helps from God. God bless me, and be happy for me if one day I’m on my way to pursue the very happiness that I want.